The mistake many ladies make is looking for a God fearing man rather than a God loving man. There is a huge difference. Fear is a product of resentment to punishment, but love... well, love is the beginning and end of all things. If I truly love you I can't have enough of your presence. But if I fear you, I cant wait to get rid of your influence. If I love you, I will die for you but if I fear you, I will run from you. To fear God is to seek not to displease Him, but to love God is to seek to please Him always. FIND HIM THAT TRULY LOVES GOD.