The second rule of relationship is; THOU SHALL GET A LIFE
Having discovered yourself, meaning you have done the SWOT Analysis of thyself that is YOUR STRENGTH , WEAKNESS, OPPORTUNITIES AND THREAT are known and understood.
The next step is to create life and living around these PECULIARITIES and QUALITIES of yours,
First STRENGTH; YOU should build capacity around your strength eg learning, training, professionalism, schooling, vocational skills etc
This serves as a COMPETITIVE ADVANTAGE, ITS YOUR JACKPOT CARD. DONT TOY WITH IT.
Next is your WEAKNESS,- walk around your weakness, see how much you can improve yourself, yours could be anger, procrastination, pride,mediocrity etc
Look for help (socially. spiritually. reading motivationals, attending finishing schools etc ) in line of your weakness to improve/ overcome your weakness . DONT DROP YOUR WEAKNESS -ITS YOUR UNDOING. MAKE IT A WORK IN PROGRESS.
OPPORTUNITIES are what bring benefits to you , it could be location . environment, natural endowment , wealth etc
Use them to maximise your potentials.
Lastly THREAT - external entity that is disadvantageous to you,
whatever threatens you challenges you, don't throw in the gauntlet, ACCEPT your CHALLENGE and MOVE ON
MANY TIMES maximizing our OPPORTUNITIES IS A WAY TO RIDE ABOVE OUR THREATS.
ONCE YOU BUILD QUALITY LIFE AROUND YOURSELF
YOU ARE LESS UNTUTORED, IMPOLITE, UNFRIENDLY, UNOCCUPIED, THOUGHTLESS, CARELESS/CAREFREE
YOU ARE LIKELY GOING TO BE MORE FRIENDLY. TOLERANT, THOUGHTFUL, CARING, ENGAGED AND ORGANIZED.
THE QUALITY OF LIFE YOU HAVE YOU BRING INTO MARRIAGE/RELATIONSHIP
ASK YOURSELF; IS YOUR LIFE SWEET ENOUGH TO ENTICE ANOTHER PERSON TO DARE STAY IN IT FOR LIFE?
MARRIAGE IS NOT DISNEY LAND
WHAT YOU BRING INTO IT YOU GET
CAN THE LIFE YOU HAVE GOT NOW SUSTAIN A FOREVER LIFE OF BLISS?
DON'T BRING ANOTHER PERSON INTO IT YET, IT WONT GO FAR
GO AND GET A LIFE!!!.