Some folks close to me did some really nasty things I can't imagine and I have been trying so hard to let it go off my mind. I soon discovered even around me everything suddenly started getting really dull. And when I searched and searched, I found out it was because I kept those hurts in my mind.
To my surprise, after taking out some time before going to bed to think about everything and forgive them, it was as though an heavy burden was lifted off my head and I felt totally free from that night. Even till this present time of writting, I am still very happy with myself.
It pays to forgive. If you can't forgive, the presence of God cannot dwell in your heart. Seriously, there is really no peace for anyone who can't forgive.